WTH are you? 12 years old?
She can't have sex out of wedlock, but you can? What world are you in mortimer? (NO offense to anyone named Mortimer).
I think it is time for you to leave this site there Elton John.
The real world.
Women get pregnant, men do not.
And that simple fact has shaped mankind in such a way as to make it OK for men to be casual about sex--
And not OK for women to be casual about sex.