That depends on why the couple got married in the first place.
How did that old fashioned rhyme go?
"First comes love. Then comes marriage. Then comes the baby in the baby carriage."
.......it's all just about entrapment from there on out.
Sometimes it is, especially if the child was there before the marriage.
Preposterous.
Only "it's all just about this" or "it's always that" statements are preposterous.
The advice "Look very carefully before you jump" is not preposterous. It is common sense.
We agree. Look carefully to find out if the man who is calling drags his knuckles on the ground when he is comin' up the driveway. ;~D
I agree,
BOTH need to be careful before they jump.
Especially the one who has a child...
How many DBBF's kids(Death By Boyfriend) do we read about here in a week? And it could just as easily read DBGF too.
IMO, what is best for the child comes first. Period.