To: Drew68
"He tells me he won't drink as much after we get married." "I know she cheated on me while we were dating but she wouldn't do that if she had a ring on her finger.
Just like the women who think they can change the man after marriage, or the man who cheats on his wife with a married woman, both get divorced and marry and then are surprised to find one is cheating again.
105 posted on
09/18/2005 8:38:54 AM PDT by
R. Scott
(Humanity i love you because when you're hard up you pawn your Intelligence to buy a drink.)
To: R. Scott
There are also behaviors that may not come to full bloom until the marriage is underway....
Mild jealousy becomes insane jealousy as the social circle enlarges,
A few drinks when stressed becomes heavy drinking during hard times.
Timid insecurity becomes rabid control freakishness.
etc
Granted, most of the flags are there, but some are folded and in the drawer at the time of marriage.
109 posted on
09/18/2005 8:55:19 AM PDT by
najida
(So, I said to myself -Self, I really think shrimp heads in the flower pots as compost is a bit much!)
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