I didn't say security was solely based on financial means... I said it also includes it.
Nonetheless I still reject your argument out of hand. My fiance NEVER cared how much money I made -indeed, when we met she already had roughly ten times as much financial assets than I did and knew that if we did formally get together and eventually marry that she would experience a much more difficult lifestyle when her family disowned her (they disliked Me intensely), but she did not care. She told Me more than once that at least we would have love, and that mattered to her more than anything.
Too, I have had women ask Me point blank how much I make, and I instantly respond that that was not a topic that was up for discussion, and shouldn't they care more for an indvidual than the monetary contributions he would be putting on the table? Because if that was what they were looking for then best say our goodbyes now, as I was not searching for a potential Hole In Pocket experience.