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I see what you are saying, but you have to realize that you are very uncommon. our thumnail sketch of the prom queen etc isn't very meaningful, nor is it very accurate, for women much older than 22 or 23. That's not exactly the dynamic going on with them: I think you are being too tough on them, or maybe unsure how to handle them. In fact, once you know how to handle them, they are perfectly fine and wonderful companions, clearly beating out older models with more years under their belts to build storehouses of baggage.

I wouldn't suggest that most (or even many) older women are that much more "mature" and play "NO games at all," as you say. I can't see how anyone can live in the USA in 2005 and have any legitimate basis for saying that.

I know many women in their 30s. 40s, and older who are unmarried (either always single or divorced). They aren't notably more mature when it comes to relationships than women in their late 20s. It's all comparable, though that's not to say it's all the same.

The fact is, the games the 24 year old might be playing is probably a bit different tnan the games a 44 year old might be playing, but that's not to say they aren't both playing games.

In my experience, anyone who says that a single woman (either never married or divorced) in her 40s is notably mature and uniquely not into playing games hasn't actually met many real women in their 40s. The same is true for women in their mid 30s or so. While some exist, the trend of single, manless, and aggressively looking women is not becoming notably more 'mature' as they grow older. Not at all.

I hear you, mate, but you misunderstand Me. My experiences with 'older women' are from almost three decades ago. The quality of the pool has indeed declined significantly since then, but I will always cherish in My heart what gifts I received when I was in My uncertain formative years.

Just had to add that sometimes experience is the greatest aphrodisiac of all... and bubble-brained bimbo is not the be-all and end-all that many appear to think.