Once again, I will say the obvious: you turned a discussion into a personal attack. And you did so first. So which of us touched a nerve?
Since the gloves are off, let me say that your attitude so far on this thread speaks volumes about why you don't understand why men won't be attracted to some women. You want a man to do all the work. He needs to fit "your" concept of a good man, but you reject totally the idea that you might have to compromise, too. What's so hard about smiling across the bar at a man? Are you afraid he won't smile back? Then you are the one with the issues...
Reread my original post. To draw any conclusions about my life or relationships from it says far more about you than it does me. You have no knowledge of me beyond what little I wish to share, yet you feel qualified to give me advice (and the arrogance to state that you know what motivates men better than men, even).
Feel free not to reply, because I have decided that you really don't have anything worth my listening to to say. And you might want to brush up on "disagreeing without turning it into a personal attack." Most men aren't attracted by that, either...
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