Why would you think that of me, other than petulance that is? Is there any existential reason to discount the possibility women are always carping about poor leadership because they are resistant to following?
It *is* the Biblical position, if such things mean anything to you.
Look...I was married for 26yrs to someone who wanted me to take care of all the details in life for him.... yet griped incessantly if money wasn't stretched as far as he "thought" it should be... or throw tantrums if things didn't go as smoothly as he wanted. He didn't want to involve himself in the kids, marriage or be responsible for anything...then wondered, "What happened??" ....when the divorce came down. That's as willfully clueless and emotionally lazy as it gets.....IMHO.
I realize there are women who basically do the same things. I just want you to realize that this plays out in both genders. When I hear a man talk about women "carping" or being "controlling".....it immediately makes me wonder what they did to contribute to the circumstances.