>>I'm an attorney, drive a cute little BMW and when guys find out they totally shut me out. The Bimmer is the only thing I have in the world that's a sign of wealth- it's my dream car and it's not new.
Z3? Z4? Or maybe a 3-series 'vert? I used to have a 6-series before I got rear-ended. I personally like those mid-80s BMWs. Solid machines.
I would think it would be fairly easy for a female car enthusiast to meet a nice male car enthusiast. It is usually so male-dominated, that the few single women I've seen at car shows (and such), generally get a lot of attention.
Looking for a car enthusiast, go to car show, or go to the race track.. The girl that shuts you down out of the tree might be a good mate...