I know and for the record FOG24 is a woman!
I made the same mistake myself...
Indeed I noticed FOG24 came clean as a scrolled down subsequent threads.
My point still stands however, men don't take serious, on whole, women who pursue them. Their just exercise along the way. A man needs to pursue what he wants. Otherwise he's just milking cows and killing time.
Men who are honest with themselves know this. Those that refute this are lazy, scared or both.
PS: I was sucessful with "B-Teams Players" for 20 years before reaizing I'd never meet my life mate unless going after what I WANTED. Been married 6 years and life's fantastic. I wish I wouldn't have wasted those 20 years being pursued by those "foggy types".