Maybe you are looking in the wrong places?
Just being out in the world. I have a friend in America who called off an engagement for similar reasons - we call it the "Princess Syndrome". There are a number of women out there who believe that marriage is servitude...for men. And also, they believe that it is the man's duty to make everything perfect forever...if not, the bloke's got to go.
If I was an adherent of Buddhism, I'd be considering life in a monastery in Tibet at the moment.
Regards, Ivan