No problem. Anyway in my little opinion relationships are always better when both sides know that the other side feels the same way. The pursing thing just bases the relationship on the man's ability (or, inability) to romantically dazzle the woman. And once they're married, it goes away (because the catch is made).
A good friend of mine fell victim to this, and it almost lead to the end of their marriage, a couple months after it had just started. The guy was so lovey and romantic in courting, and then once married, went to "normal" mode, and she was shocked. Took a lot of discussion for both to realize what happened. Just being yourselves is the better way to be, from the get go, in my opinion.
Biology 101