I'm beginning to think that you are refusing to understand what she is saying. Please see my post #1034. It's really quite simple.
The funny thing is that my wife agreed to marry me when I was unemployed.
That is why I hold people such as you in such high esteem. My fiance knew that she would have to work if she got together with Me as I was not making enough at the time to support us on a single income. However, unlike some she accepted that eventually I would be earning much more and the money was really not important after all. What mattered was that we knew we were meant for each other.