Hey, you know the story better than I do. All that I'd point out is that your tactic isn't accomplishing what you thought it would, so maybe you better try something different.
I hear you mate. She is very persistant however, and I just do not want to be labled a 'Heartless SOB' by anyone -been on the receiving end of that from certain individuals in the past and it is not as if I dislike her. I just am not willing to be with her.