I'm not siding with these parents, but I'm not wholesale condemning them either until I know the entire story - thank you and God bless you. So often we read these original stories and are horrified; it is nice to have a perspective of someone dealing with the same issues (although it sounds as if you handled it a bit better) - but 11 kids? wow
I couldn't IMAGINE trying to take care of 11 special-needs kids. With our one little guy, it came so close to tearing our family apart (we already had two birth children), we almost didn't go through with the adoption. We're glad we did, but it was real iffy there for a few months.