[starfish923]

As a man, I haven't known all that many guys who initially look for "brains and sophistication" in a woman. Maybe I just know too many losers. Sorry, I mean loosers.

As a woman, I haven't known too many men who DON'T look for YOUNG boobs and butts in a woman, blonde, brunette or redhead.

I haven't known too many women who DON'T look for Johnny Paycheck, oops, I mean, security and maturity, in a man. Security and maturity, to a woman, means JOHNNY PAYCHECK....and they'll stick with that definition until the cows come home.

After a divorce or two, SOME men and women start looking for OTHER things.....sometimes. :o)

[Mike Bates]

After a divorce or two. . .

Or three of four. . .

[najida]

Hun,

You are so right. OK, so mebby I have my fantasies,
but money ain't number one. ;) Now maturity means a working pacemaker and security is social.

[unixfox]

Security and maturity, to a woman, means JOHNNY PAYCHECK

And only STUPID men fall for it. They can live with their cats as far as I'm concerned.