Character matters, too. If I knew a woman to be a major league liar or cheat, she would not look as good to me.
I would not want to be seriously involved with a woman in a way that children could be conceived if she were not someone I would want to marry and have children with.
I like you. In college at Texas A&M, I was a very blond and slim. I would go to parties and bars and pretend I was an elementary education major. All the guys thought I was serious. When I actually told them my major, they couldn't believe it. At first, I was a chemical engineering major and then I switched to computer science.
I had one guy that told me that I was too cute to be a chemical engineering major.
After college I moved to California, and I met my husban. I don't think he married me because I was cute or smart. He married me because I was conservative. There's not a lot of conservative women in these parts.
Intelligent women usually learn early on how to maximize their looks. If a woman is a fat, unkempt slob, there is about 100% chance she is also an idiot - or is deliberately making a political statement against "lookism" like Andrea Dworkin. Either way, studies have proven that hourglass-shaped women are the most fertile, so men choose them for subconscious, biological reasons - it has nothing to do with media images or stereotyping. Feminists are so wrong on that point, they might as well be blaming the President for ordering men to avoid ugly women. ;)
Natural blondes are disappearing from the American gene pool as we become more of a Hispanic and Asian nation. And Hispanic and Asian women look rather silly with bleached blonde hair, thus, tastes are changing. Eva Longoria is the ideal now, not Farrah Fawcett.