The interesting thing is that is exactly what some people here want. They claim to be concerned about their relatives in the military, yet want to see them fighting over a billion Muslims. Go figure.
We were at war with quite a few million Japanese, and my grandmother managed to be concerned about my grandfather without wanting the war to stop.
I don't think we are at war with one billion Muslims, but if we were, I would want my nephew to be doing the same thing he did in Iraq last year: Kill the enemy.
There is absolutely no contradiction in the position these people have taken, despite your childish derision of them. The contradiction is in your posts and it is a mirror image of the contradiction you accuse them of.