Our son, just today, was told by SC DSS that he must pay child support on a 18 month old that is not his. He wanted to marry the mother and agreed to give the baby his name at birth. He also signed a paternity waiver at that time (he did not pay attention to what he was signing.) Anyway, the bi--h left him and filed for support. She won and our son is really down and out today.
He better get a lawyer and go to court pronto. He better go while the child is young or he'll kick himself for years.
He should sue for custody then. He may not win, but he can make it clear to her that he will keep her in court for the rest of her natural life, and demand to see his "son" every week. After all, he's going to be paying for him for the next 18 years.
That's just a sick situation. There should be legal recourse for that kind of thing. One more reason to be terrified of modern american women.
With a decent lawyer, your son shouldn't have much problem ditching that case. If they were never married AND DNA proves he isn't the father, then a good lawyer shouldn't have a problem popping holes in the case.
If your son knows who the bio dad is, you can request that the court properly reassign paternity. If you don't, the trick is to stay consistent. Put together a war chest and make it clear to the mother that you're going to make her life a legal hell. Sue her in civil courts for fraud too...if he signed under the impression that they were to be married, you can make the argument that she deceived him into signing a legal contract under false pretenses. Either way, the goal is to make sure her legal bills exceed her child support payment, which will eventually force her to give it up.
Don't be afraid to sling mud. Hell, rent a bulldozer for it. I had a friend who's wife slept around on him and got knocked up by another guy. He hired two PI's and collected so much garbage on her that by the time the courts were through she'd not only lost her support case, but the court stripped her of custody of her two older children from a previous marriage. He completely destroyed her life (and that's a good thing...she was a b*#$%).
I understand that kids especially boys follow their little heads but you should have hit him upside his big head with a two by four.
Not demeaning you because it happens all the time. Your boy is stuck for the next twenty years regardless.
If he makes advacnes in salary and position she will then go back to court to increase whatever he already is hustled for.
its a two way street.....if the courts order him to pay, then he has the right to help parent the child........
you see, there is a whole lot of ramifications about children.....
personally, I would love to "find" a grandchild somewhere to love....my kids aren't producing yet.....
I even had these terrible evil thoughts that maybe my son would meet a woman who already had kids and I would have instant grandchildren......LOL