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'These Boots are Made for Walking': Why Most Divorce Filers are Women
American Law and Economics Review ^ | 2000 | Margaret Friedlander Brinig, Douglas Allen

Posted on 09/06/2005 11:05:03 AM PDT by ExitPurgamentum

by Margaret Friedlander Brinig, Douglas Allen

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'These Boots are Made for Walking': Why Most Divorce Filers are Women


MARGARET F. BRINIG
University of Iowa, College of Law
DOUGLAS W. ALLEN
Simon Fraser University



 

 
Abstract:     
Because of the financial and social hardship faced after divorce, most people assume that generally husbands have instigated divorce since the introduction of no-fault divorce. Yet women file for divorce and are often the instigators of separation, despite a deep attachment to their children and the evidence that many divorces harm children. Furthermore, divorced women in large numbers reveal that they are happier than they were while married. They report relief and certainty that they were right in leaving their marriages. This fundamental puzzle suggests that the incentives to divorce require a reexamination, and that the forces affecting the net benefits from marriage may be quite complicated, and perhaps asymmetric between men and women. This paper considers women's filing as rational behavior, based on spouses' relative power in the marriage, their opportunities following divorce, and their anticipation of custody.



TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; Culture/Society; Extended News; Government
KEYWORDS: divorce; women
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To: Hi Heels
I am glad that your bad experience did not make you bitter and distrustful of all men, there are some good guys out there and some bad. I believe that children need both parents, but if abuse, violence, alcohol binges, etc come into a relationship then the only way is out. I have been blessed, but I also know that from friends experiences, if I was in their position and was treated badly, or my children were, I would leave in an instant. No question. Life is too short to live it with the wrong person. I do not believe in cheating, lying or all of those games, if you cant make it work, if you cant be faithful, then you dont have anything, so leave. That way you might both be able to find the right person in the future.
Like you say it's a two way street, some men are the victims, some men are the villains and the same goes for women.
301 posted on 09/06/2005 7:46:02 PM PDT by Rose of Sharn (I get the best answers when i talk to myself!)
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To: TheForceOfOne

LOVE that song! I've been singing it all evening! : )


302 posted on 09/06/2005 7:48:23 PM PDT by Rose of Sharn (I get the best answers when i talk to myself!)
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To: Rose of Sharn

well said. Thanks Rose of Sharn.


303 posted on 09/06/2005 7:49:09 PM PDT by repinwi
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To: ExitPurgamentum
Your brush is broad and your judgment is asinine. I am NOT clairvoyant. I can not pretend to know how any other person might respond to life. You might. And God bless you for that, but I can't.
304 posted on 09/06/2005 7:49:17 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Rose of Sharn

Jessica did a good job on the video but it still doesn't beat the original with Nancy. I think maybe last year I saw Nancy do it on the Jerry Lewis MDA Labor Day Telethon. She still has it! :P


305 posted on 09/06/2005 7:51:27 PM PDT by TheForceOfOne (The alternative media is our Enigma machine.)
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To: repinwi

Just speaking from my heart. :)


306 posted on 09/06/2005 7:52:07 PM PDT by Rose of Sharn (I get the best answers when i talk to myself!)
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To: narby; Hi Heels

Just casually observing, narby, but that was an unfair and unwarranted slam. She, Hi Heels, should leave a man who can't keep his word, his promise, his vow. The Bible even backs her on that.


307 posted on 09/06/2005 7:52:12 PM PDT by Zechariah11
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To: Rose of Sharn; repinwi

Yep. Well said. It was not that I cared so much about his actions, it was that I was representing what she would BE. So, she would BE a woman who would put up with slut puppy actions and drugs and alcohol? Nope. Gotta go. And so now she knows. The bottle gets him, you gotta go. Take the kids. Get a job (I always HAD a job). But the most important lesson is this: DONT MARRY YOUR DAD DONT BE ABUSED and YOU ARE GREAT no matter whether you dad thinks so or not.


308 posted on 09/06/2005 7:54:09 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Zechariah11

He came around. Read on, FRiend. Thanks.


309 posted on 09/06/2005 7:55:06 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Rose of Sharn

Here's the original....

http://www.larryhnetka.com/wordpress/wp-new_images/uploads/boots.mov


310 posted on 09/06/2005 7:58:03 PM PDT by TheForceOfOne (The alternative media is our Enigma machine.)
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To: Hi Heels

"KANSAS? Holy Creepos, I live in Kullifornia! Every guy I meet is full of complications or is gay. This is not good..........."

Mind you im 18, alot of younger people are naturally liberal, and being from the city doesnt help that.


311 posted on 09/06/2005 7:58:39 PM PDT by Xenophon450
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To: alrea

Isn't that SAD? I believe it too! Like the man said, you gotta have license to own a dog, but anyone can have a child.


312 posted on 09/06/2005 7:58:55 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: edcoil
Do you know why most men die before their wives?

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...because they want to.

313 posted on 09/06/2005 8:02:17 PM PDT by SC Swamp Fox (Aim small, miss small.)
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To: Stu Cohen

If alcohol is outlawer only outlaws will have alcohol...and I don't want to be forced into a criminal lifestyle.


314 posted on 09/06/2005 8:02:37 PM PDT by MIT-Elephant ("Armed with what? Spitballs?")
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To: Xenophon450

Now, see? You have so much work to do to turn your generation around. When I worked the Nixon campaign I thought I was the only conservative in the world. There was no internet. There was no FRee Republic. You're lucky. You've found people of like mind. Even now in Kullifornia I feel pretty out of place. God, Country, Family just seem so foreign to everyone I know. They are all so superficial. My daughter is uncomfortable at her school because she's a good Christian girl. I'm working to send her to a Christian college so she doesn't feel out of place and I keep telling her, "hang in there. Not everyone dances in their thong and talks rap". Poor kid.


315 posted on 09/06/2005 8:03:46 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Hi Heels

Sounds like your fighting an uphill battle, well being in california and trying to raise some one with common sense but you seem to be doing a very fine job of it.


316 posted on 09/06/2005 8:10:59 PM PDT by Xenophon450
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To: Xenophon450

Thank you. Somedays I feel like that guy holding the earth on his shoulders.


317 posted on 09/06/2005 8:13:05 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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To: Hi Heels

The World...29 Million Libs...i probably couldnt tell the diffrence :)


318 posted on 09/06/2005 8:14:41 PM PDT by Xenophon450
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To: SC Swamp Fox

And in the immortal words of Lewis Grizzard...


"Instead of getting married again, I'm going to find a woman I don't like and give her a house..."


319 posted on 09/06/2005 8:14:57 PM PDT by Hand em their arse
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To: Hand em their arse

You DONT LIKE me. I swear you hate my guts.


320 posted on 09/06/2005 8:17:52 PM PDT by Hi Heels (Guns kill and cause crime? Dang, mine must be malfunctioning....)
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