Thanks, cajungirl. Sometimes I wonder how long term marriages survive and then I realize it's by deciding you want to stay married and blow off the small stuff.
yep but you have to blow off the really huge big stuff too,,,like how he irritates me when he butters his bagel and dips the knife into the jelly and gets butter all in the jelly, and how he habitually drops one sock on the side of the bed and how he never enters cash flows into the checkbook and how he hides my car keys when we go on vacation and then doesn't tell me where he hid them.
The minor irritations of everyday life.