Good Lord! You all must be wreck (I had 2 kids in harm's way on 9-11). The waiting is brutal.
Special prayers for your son-in-law.
Good grief, it's a small world. We thought living on a ranch in the middle of nowhere might make us safe, but the world is rather small, now. My daughter who is married to the merchant mariner who is now in the middle of a huricane, worked for an international company and had an appointment on the fourth floor of the WTC on 9-11. Her AA flight from Dallas was cancelled at the last moment that day. She could hardly work after that and cried for two weeks at having been somehow spared.