Mr. Cowboy,
Go to http://www.sweetness-light.com. I hate to blog-whore here, but I've been reading this guy since he started about a couple of weeks ago, and it's the one-stop shop for info about what Cindy Sheehan says vs. what she claims she has said.
The newest post is a clip of the video interview given to a San Francisco TV station just after Casey died. It looks like the rest of the family really recognizes Casey's sacrifice, even if Saint Cindy doesn't.
Bookmarking for later