When I lived in Albuquerque, I had a heck of a time finding women to date. Most already had a kid or were divorced--which for me were immediate red flags. Not always of course, but at the time I just was not looking for an "instant family, just add Betis."
Now it is not so hard to avoid those red flags, but trying to avoid the RED flag (as in Marxist/Maoist variety) is close to impossible.
I think I need to move to Texas.
As I said, right now I've got a good woman, but she's a hopeless liberal.
I gave up on looking for a right-wing chick as there simply aren't any around here that aren't either married, frigid, old, bible-thumpers (I don't mean just Christian-Christian is a preferred trait obviously, I'm talking the in-your-face-bible-thumping type that won't even let you have a beer without a lecture), or stuck up. Most were attractive in a physical sense though! And I know that interesting, attractive conservative women exist (just look on FR-plenty here!) but none in Akron, O-hi-O!
The woman I'm dating now is a wonderful person despite being a left-wing moonbat...sigh...I tried converting her, but it's proven hopeless...
You think you would have more luck living in a bigger city. I live in a semi-small town and it's next to impossible to find a guy. I think we should both move to Texas.