"I find it amazing that so many people who weren't there are so willing to assume so many things about the facts and character of people that they don't know."
There's a great book called BLINK, about how most snap judgements are actually very...right. CJ told us more about himself than he ever would have guessed, in his post. The majority of responders are with me, which is not to say that we are right, per se, but that we came away with an impression different than yours, apparently.
I guess I'll just sashay up to the local noisy eatery...Honey get my 45....
I'll keep ya posted...I'm the guy with hair though....not the bald guy....