"Since Cindy literally hates the military, does that also suggest she really hated her son for JOINING, serving someone one she calls a the worlds worst terrorist?"
Good question. It sounds like one of those revelations brought on by therapy. If asked, this question would either hit her like a ton of bricks or she would continue wandering in an emotional fog. Probably the latter. But what you're saying is truly a valid question. If your hate for the military runs deep...very, very deep, what do you do when your son joins the military...worse, joins again?