I remember getting paid a "WHOLE DOLLAR" for working a day in the tobacco fields dropping sticks as a kid (I think I was 5 or 6).
I had it spent five times in my mind before I got home riding my bicycle. (8^D)
Where did you grow up? I didn't know they raise tobacco in N.D.
You are not going to reach the lad with kindness. Either he can fix himself or he just won't get fixed. Probably the latter.