[summer]

But her side? I don't get it.

I don't either. Even to have fantasies is one thing (as wrong as those thoughts may be when such thoughts involve a child), but then - to act upon those thoughts - and involve a child, well, that is something else. I really think these adults have lost it. And, it's usually a longterm, repeated series of acts, not just one misunderstanding or something like that. Very strange.

And, again, in this woman's case, as in the case of the blonde in FL, it's not like these women are incapable of attracting attention from an adult male!

[summer]

I meant to type: as wrong as those thoughts ARE when....