Only five years ago. Not so long. Whew. I really don't know what to say ~ I guess if you must deal with such a loss you have to choose to accept the loss and move on. Again, I am sorry.
Oh, you don't move on; it's always with you; it is how you choose to deal with it.
Like I said above, I just decided if I fell apart, it would reflect poorly on Drew's life; he loved us for who we were -- and any change in that would have probably made him mad!
This is a uncomfortable situation for most of us who have lost children, not wanting to judge others. But she's not grieving anymore. She's enjoying this, IMO.