My grandmother lost one of her sons (one of my uncles) in WWII and never joined with the Japanese to berate the President and the war. Her heart was just as broken, but she had both integrity and character, something this woman lacks.
We'll never agree on this one. Grief effects people in different ways. In this case, I think it's caused this woman to have a breakdown and allowed her to be used as a tool. You obviously believe otherwise. We'll never come to an understanding.