Ok, I would have to agree with you to some extent. I admire the discipline.
However, with what the church is going through these days that point seems moot. I mean, there are Homosexual Priests molesting children. SO, the gays are running rampant in the church as well.
The Church of the Resurection, just down the street from me has a separate mass for homosexuals. NOT to tell them that thier lifestyle is an abomination to God, but just allowing them to come to mass and taking the Eucharist. And, if my catechism taught me correctly, homosexuality is a sin, if you sin and do not go to pennance and repent from that sin, then you cannot take the eucharist. Hypocracy...
There is no church or school within the Catholic body which is following the Vatican's doctrine and tolerating homosexual priests, or teaching that homosexuality is tolerable. I suspect there are the ocational hereetical church or school claiming alligience to the Catholic church, but those are few and far between.
The public schools regularly use materials promoting homosexuality, and paganism. If you find that preferable go for it.