I think many, like myself, are trying to be cautious but tactful. I understand your skepticism... but not everyone knows about the concerns that some were starting to piece together before this happened.
I don't know the answer. The friend who has logged in here might, if she's the real deal.
I've posted my concerns in my last couple of posts--and I know several people here shared them. If folks don't know what I'm talking about, a quick check of Harry's posts ought to clear it up.
I envy your heart, HOTD. I wish I was as good a soul as you. I mean that sincerely.