Actually, I think it was someone here who mentioned a discussion with a friend "in the know", I recall they said they were just out of earshot of their wives! Anyone remember saying this? I may be wrong as I read SO MUCH!
My mistake, it was SlowBoat407 in the last thread talking about a friend "in the know", but that wasn't the incident where a date was mentioned. I'll try and find it, I don't think it was someone on the TM.