Re Condi: I know many accomplished women who are single but not lesbian. They don't do the asking [to be married].
For very smart women, the problem of finding a husband is more acute because so many men are intimidated. For an accomplished black woman, I've heard that the problem is even worse. My daughter in law, for example, didn't marry until her late 30's because she didn't find anyone she could trust and who had her standards.
But if a man marries late, he's potentially gay? Why the double standard?