Speak for your own kids Kemosabi. My daughters worked all during college. Waitressing in one case, at a vet clinic in the other. Older one is 30 and has a JD, younger one is almost 25 and has an M.S. They are solid responsible citizens, albeit with a few notions their Dad finds a bit strange.
Fair enough, perhaps I am too harsh, but I come from a rich area. Maybe I have the blinders on, because the majority of the kids that I would know would fit the description of being selfish and with a overblown sense of entitlement. BUt like I said, I come from a well to do area.