I agree with the first sentence. As for the second sentence, it depends. Some of them she-males look mighty convincing. A real man might get to second base before he finds out. But once you round third, you are in George Michael territory for sure.
I had a girlfriend who had a very close friend who dressed like a woman and took whatever they take to have titties. Heshe was pretty nice but he decieved a lot of people and he was very good at convincing drunk men they were getting laid properly. Anyway one night she took the wrong man home and he killed her with a knife when he discoevered what she had done. She was warned repeatedly that this was gonna happen and she had been beat up before but could not stop.