But you are right and it is a profound point. Life is dangerous...not just Aruba.
Absolutely. I went out to different bars too wehn I was younger. There were even bars that were best avoided because PEOPLE WOULD GET MURDERED at them. People were warned to avoid them. They would be mentioned in newspaper articles, along with the latest victim. Sometimes men, sometimes women. Know what? I DID NOT GO THOSE BARS. Common sense dictated taht I stay away from those places.
The concerns that we had 25 or 30 years ago are still there, only magnified about 50 times, now. :(