[the Deejay]

just bad decisions made by dumb people, right?

Yup. Just look around the news daily. The moms that take up w/men they know little to nothing about and their kids get raped & murdered. I'd say the moms make very poor decisions.

[Malichi]

Sooooooo, society should blame the mom. We as a society shouldn't expect everyone to adhere to some sort of ethics.
I mean, hell, if you want to take it all the way down, wouldn't it really be the fault of, say, a victim of a home invasion because they hadn't placed enough locks on their doors. Obviously, you've never been the victim of a crime and had that awful feeling in the pit of your stomach when you realize that demons really do walk the Earth.
TAW