I don't serve the party, they're supposed to serve us.
Why? We're not your servant. Your profile page says that you "hold no loyalty to any political party."
That's certainly your right as an American, but it's our right as a political party to exclude you from any consideration in the process of governing. We are a private organization, not a government agency.
Do you think that you have a right to be served by every church, regardless of whether you are a member?
Do you think that you have a right to walk into any private club and demand to be served?
Political parties are "members only."