People like you--nasty little haters--are why the Left gets to paint every conservative there is with the words "homophobic" and "intolerant."
An understanding--not an endorsement, not an acceptance--a recognition that homosexuals are entitled to pursue their happiness, their lives, their goals (yes, as long as all that doesn't infringe on mine or yours; and yes, we can all still concur on gay marriage being off the table)... a recognition that that these people too are not "inhuman" would bring hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of middle-of-the road voters over to our side.
But you and your unnatural kind (how's it feel, being marginalized?) just stupidly hand them the ammo they need to shoot at our side.