[madison10]

You and your affianced are rude,then . How will a complete stranger know who to sit next to? Either you care about the people you have invited to share your joy, or you don't. It sounds as though you don't.

I don't think they are rude at all. We just sit where ever we darn well please at weddings. It's a midwestern, middle-class, church-thing. I think YOU are wearing a very tight corset.

[nopardons]

I was talking about the RECEPTION, I don't wear a corset, tight or otherwise, and since Chicago IS the Midwest, I know whereof I speak.