[rawhide]

"You must go to some very loosey goosey weddings"

I think it is wrong of you to put down another person's idea of a wedding, even though it does not come up to your level of proper etiquette. To call someone's wedding 'loosey goosey' is crass on your part, and not proper etiquette!

[nopardons]

I wasn't "putting those weddings down". Don't you know what the term "loosey goosey" means? It means what it implies...a wedding or a function without rules.

If I had wanted to be "crass", I would have written something far worse.

And good manners ( which is simply a way of showing others that you care for and about them !), are FREE!