[cyborg]

I went to a weddding this past weekend that had place cards for everyone. There were empty seats because some people didn't show up. I know when I have mine, there will be no 'crashers' because my mother will be in charge :-)

[nopardons]

When people don't show up, a well run establishment removes the place cards and the table setting.

With your mother in charge, I have no doubt whatsoever, that YOUR wedding will be done according to Hoyle. LOL