Look, I know you have less than no interest in the actual topic of this thread and are much more interested in talking about your wedding and your likes and dislikes, but I was explaining just WHY, the premise of this movie, with the crashers crashing a VERY formal wedding and full weekend of activities, of a prominent Senator's daughter, is more than just far fetched; it's ridiculous!
Do you honestly think that a prominent Senator, who plans on running for the presidency, would have a wedding without Secret Service and a wedding planner and his/her staff and without the director of the place and his/her staff, NOT looking over the guest list and NOT finding crashers and evicting them?
That was the topic... The article, in paragraph 3 asks: "But how are true are these generalizations?"
The topic is weddings, and the experiences of those on the forum.... We are not limited to talking about a movie none of us have seen.... The thread topic is very much out of your control.
You made statements about rules of etiquette we all better gosh darn follow or we're rude. I think many here wanted to let you know that those rules are very much not the only acceptable practice.
I see your point about the movie. We were in the military when I got married, and all the guests had to have a pass to get onto the base. When people told us they were coming, we mailed them their pass.