Not only have I given such a wedding, but have been to at least 20 such, in the past few years, in N.Y.C.,Conn., Cal., and Chicago.
And FWIW, I was talking about just WHY the premise of the TOPIC OF THIS THREAD, which isn't anyone here's wedding,nor ones that they have attended , is just ridiculous.
Oh, sweetie... your credibility, which is already zero, is being further stretched by your shrillness. Just give up.