Good for you!
My daughter is an Asperger's kid.
I'm doing that fight right now.
I will think of you the next time they try.
Another CRAZY Mom.
These children are often gifted children who are misdiagnosed. Use a search engine, and find a site for parents of gifted children. Learn the peculiarities associated with these kids, and it may help you. It may not, but look before you make any life altering decisions. (Gifted kids have their special patterns of behavior).