"This question still hasn't been answered. Who told her name?"
Tenet or one of his stooges. JMO
See here: http://washingtontimes.com/national/20031002-122228-5129r.htm
I clipped this from the page, and copied the link “He is married to the former Valerie Plame and has two sons and two daughters. “
Unfortunately, the link is no longer active, but this was the url, in case someone can use it to find the cached page (I'm web illiterate, so I don't even know if it's possible) http://www.mideasti.org/html/bio-wilson.html
It was "updated 2002".
As far as I'm concerned the only thing that Rove said according to those emails that might have gotten him in trouble was mentioning Plame worked for "the agency", but I do not see anywhere where her job was described as "covert agent", or anything of the kind. Also, Novak explicity stated on a number of occasions that the CIA never warned him that outing Plame would be jeopardizing her cover. It is also important to point out that we have no official confirmation on her status as a covert operative to begin with. If she were covert, it would seem to me that Wilson mentioning her name on his bio, whether he IDd her job or not would have been problematic, if only that it opened the door for something like this to happen.