While your sentiment is correct, don't short change the psychobabilist who is, when considering his peer group, venturing into new and heretical realms. Modern educational theory, that has blithly ignored the painflly obvious for the past 40 years, has now so completely lost touch with any semblance of reality that any stab at "getting it right" and not "getting it correct" should be applauded.
Boys and girls are different. I seem to recall that the President of Harvard Univ. was recently crucified for noticing that basic truth.
Phyllis Schlafly, one of my "heroines" gets it RIGHT all the time. Instead, the idiot feminists want to listen to a pathetic figure like Gloria Steinem.
The feminization of men is one of the most insidious cancers on the character of our society, in my opinion. And I am not talking about men crying or showing their emotions.
I am talking about men being discouraged from acting in ways that are natural for them.
If it weren't so tragic it would be hysterically funny that people have to state the obvious "Men and women are different..."