I would forgive him for this. But if there was to be any divorce, it should be initiated by my husband, not by a parent. And if he sought divorce under such circumstances, I would forgive him.
That is me, how I feel and believe. The marriage between my husband and myself is a matter between us and God, and no one else should meddle in it.
Yes, you said that and more at the beginning of the thread. But, others on this thread seemed to disagree with your view. "Meddle," and "caring for the disabled," are two entirely different concepts to some people. But, not to others. I realize that. Thanks for your post.