If he did send her that letter I believe that was over the line.
Part of letter:
But I am ordained in the Baptist church. And for whatever reason, God is calling you to listen to words from the Baptists. This is clear!
If you deny this, then you are pushing away the hand of God and that would not be wise. Too many events were manipulated by God to bring us together to be a coincidence. Actually, I only police every 2nd Friday night, so just being on duty was rare.
You must respond to the words he wants you to hear. And you must be patient and faithful. It may tales weeks or month of obedience to learn the steps that it will take to get you back on the road to prosperity.
One visit, a few prayers and an occasional opening of his Bible will not be enough. You must be prepared to make some serious changes and do so now! You may not get another intercession.
Who knows? But you must admit that you've been contacted by God! And you must respond.
We have no idea what THEY said to him. Did they ask for info so they could pull this stunt? It's possible.