WOAH, such generalizations!
"The problem is when courts tell a man he can only see the children he loves every other weekend and then his ex screws with that time."
This is just not true. I know it happens to some dads, but sorry, most do get to see their kids.
"The love of their life has asked for a divorce because she wants to move on and she has the home, the kids, his paycheck, and a new man living in the house. He has to support himself on whats left of his check and in the cae of many like construction workers it does not matter that he was laid off when the job was done, Rain days or delays on the jobsite for other reasons are things the black robed little god doesnt want to hear about."
Again, where did you come up with this is how it happens is most situations? Out of all the women I know who are divorced not a one of them fit into your profile. I think you generalize women to much by thinking that is most cases it is always their faults. It takes 2 to get married and 2 to get divorced. I know a gal who cheated on her husband with his best friend and has divorced her husband and now is shacking up with the other dude. I can't stand the gal! I think she has screwed up her life and she is disgusting for what she did. I blame her for what happend, however I do know that her husband had been neglecting his marriage and her for awhile. Does not make what the gal did right, but I think if he would have fought harder for her they may still be together and the 2 kids have both of their parents. Oh, she gave up legal custody to him and they have 50/50 physical. Talk about a good mom! Pretty pathetic!
"The system is unfair and women get treated better for the most part. Women dont have to pay near as much in support if at all. And last there is as large a percentage of deadbeat moms as there is dads if not larger."
Actually I have a dead friend who's DH has custody and the mom is on probation and made to pay up big time on child support. Texas is tight on the mom and well as the dad when it comes to child support. The only way the mom gets away without paying child support is when a dad doesn't file enforcement for it. Again, you really need to stop with your generalizations. Women aren't the problem, sin is! People who divorce are sinning and God does not bless this. So, whatever happens after this comes straight from the Devil on both sides. Women aren't the enemy, Satan is. I don't consider ment he enemy either, but let Satan in just as easily as women do when a divorce happens. That is why you are laying all the responsibility on the women instead of realizing that in fact we are only responsible for our mistakes and not our sex. So stop with the generalizing and realize that you have fault in your situation as well as the mom.
You did not read that correctly. I am not sure if its your reading skills or the way I worded it. Nonetheless I stated that the problem with MANY DEADBEAT DADS is that they are screwed with. I never stated anything about MOST dads not getting to see their kids. Dont put words into my mouth. I started by saying most dads pay support.
Then you go on to claim I said the part about construction workers as in most cases. Once again I am referring to why many men become deadbeat dads or as I said devestated dads. I notive that everyone else is a victom but men are labeled deadbeats without looking into the situation that they are in. Thats why I call many of them devestated dads.
Then you go on to say I say women are the problem. I never said that. Did you even read the post I was responding to?I stated that women get a better shake in divorce court for the most part. I never claimed anything about it being a womans fault.